Description
SUCK IT UP, BUTTERCUP.
Gentle suction with a surprisingly persuasive flutter.
The Dame Aer brings the sensation of oral sex to your fingertips with a combination of gentle suction and fluttering, tongue-like stimulation. Its soft, flexible opening surrounds the clitoris without direct contact, while five patterns and five intensity levels let you dial in exactly what feels good.
Designed with an easy-to-hold shape and a generously sized opening, Aer accommodates a range of anatomies without requiring any awkward maneuvering. Its compact size makes it easy to take along for the ride, and there's plenty of room for penetration during partnered play. Sharing is optional, of course.

Dame Aer Key Features
Pleasure Air Technology: Combines gentle suction and fluttering sensations for targeted clitoral stimulation.
5 Patterns & 5 Intensity Levels: Adjust the rhythm and strength to suit your preferences.
Contact-Free Stimulation: Designed to stimulate the clitoris without direct rubbing.
Flexible Opening: Soft silicone mouth accommodates a range of anatomies.
Accessible Design: Ergonomic shape and easy-to-use controls accommodate users with limited dexterity.
Rechargeable: Magnetic USB charging cable included.
Battery Life: Up to 1.5 hours of use on a 2-hour charge.
Waterproof: Waterproof construction for easy cleaning.
Materials: Premium medical-grade silicone.
Size & Dimensions: 4.66" H × 1.95" D × 1.46" W; flexible mouth opening 0.5" × 0.8".
Warranty: Dame's 3-year warranty.

BEFORE & AFTER THE AFTERGLOW
Pair Aer with a little water-based lubricant or a compatible hybrid lubricant for comfortable stimulation. Avoid silicone-based lubricants.
Wash before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a quality toy cleaner. Allow to air dry completely before storing in a clean, dry place away from other silicone toys.
Reviews & Editorial Mentions
"If my clit were lost in the woods, the Aer would still find it." — Autostraddle
"As light as a feather but offers seriously powerful pleasure." — Marie Claire UK

Dame was founded by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman with one mission: design better sex toys through research, engineering, and honest conversations about pleasure. Every Dame product combines thoughtful ergonomics, premium body-safe materials, and modern design to help make great orgasms more accessible. Shop more Dame products.
Additional Information
Color: |
Purple |
Material: |
Silicone |
Safety Feature: |
Phthalates-Free |
Allergy Info: |
Latex-Free |
Function: |
Clitoral Stimulation |
Action: |
Suction/Vibration |
2 Reviews
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If you like oral sex BUY THIS
I'm not new to sex toys but I can safely say this is one of the best. Love the look and feel of it too! My only wish with this vibrator would be for it to be a bit quieter, but this is my new favorite anyway.
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Better than the Lelo Sona
I got the Lelo Sona before (and promptly left it in a hotel room.) It was good but the suction had a more high-pitched fluttery sensation. Based on the reviews, I thought I'd try replacing it with the Aer. Here's what I discovered: Pros: This gave me the kind of multiple O's that left me feeling tingly minutes later. I LOVED the larger "mouth." Definitely more accessible if you are a member of the big clit club. And, there is a better buildup with Aer, because of the 5 different pulsations so it doesn't overstimulate me. (Sona feels like you are putting a vibrator directly on the head of your clit.) Cons: Hardly any? I hate purple and wish it came in more colors? This was more expensive than the Sona but you get what you pay for.