Gender X BJ Buddy

BOW DOWN TO THE BALLS.

It's about damn time they got some attention.

Most men's testicles spend their entire lives playing a supporting role. The star gets all the attention while the boys downstairs are expected to sit quietly and contribute moral support.

The Gender X BJ Buddy was created to correct this injustice. This vibrating, cupped toy slides comfortably beneath the testicles during oral sex, adding targeted stimulation to an area that's far too often ignored. Simple controls, multiple vibration settings, and an easy-to-hold design make it approachable even for complete beginners.

All Bodies Welcome: But the BJ Buddy isn't a one-trick pony. Its broad, scooped shape makes it surprisingly versatile outside the blowjob department. Vulva owners may enjoy using it as a grinder, while transmen will appreciate the non-representational design and pressure-friendly shape for bottom-growth stimulation. No anatomy assumptions. No complicated learning curve. Just vibration where you want it.

One shape. Lots of possibilities.

Key Features

Designed to cradle and stimulate the testicles during oral sex.
3 vibration speeds and 7 rhythmic patterns.
Broad, scooped shape for versatile play styles.
Suitable for ball play, grinding, and bottom-growth stimulation.
Simple one-button controls.
Body-safe ABS construction.
Waterproof IPX5 shower-friendly design.
USB rechargeable lithium-ion battery.
Lab-tested and body-safe.
Length: 4.5 inches.
Width: 2.6 inches.
Backed by Gender X's 5-year warranty.

How To Enjoy It

During oral sex, slide the BJ Buddy beneath the testicles and experiment with different vibration settings while using your hands, mouth, or both. The curved shape helps keep everything comfortably supported while adding stimulation to an area that's often overlooked.

Flying solo or shopping outside the blowjob aisle? The broad, scooped design also works well as a grinder for vulva owners and can provide stimulating pressure and vibration for FTM bottom growth. Start low, explore, and see what works for your body.

Reviews & Editorial

"It features three vibrating speeds and seven rhythmic patterns, the most elaborate of which feels like a callback to subwoofers from mid-1990s hip-hop clubs. The dynamic vibration settings are easy to cycle through on its one-button control panel."
— XBIZ.com

About That Warranty

Oh, and it's backed by a 5-year warranty. Apparently, people try to return well-loved toys after five years of enthusiastic field testing. (Shudder.) Please save the warranty information that is included in your package. 

Before & After The Afterglow

Use with your favorite water-based or hybrid lubricant for maximum comfort and glide. Avoid silicone-based lubricants.

After play, wash thoroughly with warm water and mild soap or a quality toy cleaner. Allow to dry completely before storing. 

Gender X: Pleasure Is For EVERYONE.

High-quality materials, robust motors, and adaptable designs are what make Gender X stand out. Built around the idea that pleasure should be self-directed and inclusive, Gender X creates non-representational toys designed to work across bodies, preferences, and play styles—backed by innovation and a reliable 5-year warranty.