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Let’s Play a Game (But Like, Naked)
Sex games: The cure for the “We're Too Tired” Era.
If you're a fully functioning, tax-paying adult (congrats, I guess), your daily bingo card probably includes “on hold with customer service,” “stuck in traffic,” and “Googled weird pain behind left eye at 2:00 a.m.” Adult life is basically one long to-do list written by someone who hates joy.
So where exactly does your sex life fit into this thrilling schedule of bill-paying and mild exis
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Oct 29th 2026
5 FREE SEX GAMES FOR COUPLES
YOUR MOVE, HOT STUFF.
Game night has been tragically overdressed for far too long.
You don't need to buy anything or download a sketchy app to play a genuinely good sex game. In some cases, all you really need is another consenting adult and a willingness to lose.
We went looking for the sex games couples actually play—the ones that have been passed around and enthusiastically field-tested in bedrooms for years. Then we narrowed them down to five that are easy to learn and actually
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Sep 3rd 2026
A Valentine’s Night In for Women Who Love Women
STAYING IN IS THE PLAN.
Valentine's Day doesn't need a reservation. It doesn't need a crowd, a prix fixe menu, or the kind of public romance that feels like it's being evaluated by strangers. Staying in isn't giving up — it's opting out on purpose.
This guide is for lesbian couples who want a Valentine's night that feels romantic without being performative, intimate without being overproduced, and thoughtful without turning into a lifestyle photoshoot. Yes, there's romance here. We're
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Dec 22nd 2025
New Year's Eve Sex: STAY HOME. GET WEIRD.
Because overpriced dinners, party horns, and existential dread are not foreplay.
If you’re in a relationship and you’re genuinely trying to have a hot New Year’s Eve—not just survive it—going out is a scam.
And not a sexy scam like “I wore lingerie under a trench coat.” A scam like “we paid a car payment for a prix fixe dinner and then stood in a crowd breathing cigar fog while a man in a novelty top hat screamed WOOOOOOO into my ear.”
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Dec 20th 2022
10 Sexy Things to Do for Labor Day Weekend
At Tabutoys, we have some titillating Labor Day weekend ideas for all you little sex imps. Join us as we share some erotically charged suggestions tailor-made for sex-loving adults! Forget about throwing wieners on the BBQ. We have other plans for Labor Day ⏤ and weiners!
1. Peg Your Lover
Weiners and Labor Day go together like bread and butter. So what better way to celebrate than a pegging adventure? Pegging is the practice of giving your lover the back door shaft using a strap-on dildo. Whil
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Sep 15th 2022