Gender Expression Toys
Gender Expression Toys
The World Wasn’t Built for You. We Know. We Did Something About It.
The world still assumes cis bodies are the default — and sex toys are no exception. This category exists because trans people deserve pleasure gear that actually works, not repurposed leftovers. Here you’ll find FTM and MTF sex toys, packers, strap-ons that securely hold your packer, strokers made for trans masculine bodies, and toys designed with trans femmes in mind. Whether you’re trans, non-binary, genderqueer, or still figuring things out, everything here is chosen for one reason: it was designed with intention, not compromise. No binaries. No workarounds. Just gear that lets you feel like yourself and enjoy it.
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Wood Rocket Pronoun Keychains
Wood Rocket
$12.99Pronouns, Pronouns, EVERYWHERE! With these Wood Rocket Pronoun Keychains, you can make sure everyone knows exactly who the hell you are. Cis, trans, nonbinary, queer, or just a delightfully chaotic human? These sleek black-and-gold enamel rockets say it...$12.99 -
Loadz Dual Density Squirting Dildo
XR Brands
$49.00Brace Yourself… Here Comes the MOTHERLOAD! Thick. Throbbing. Absolutely shameless. Craving the ultimate cream dream? Meet the Loadz Dual Density Squirting Dildo, your personal, refillable porn fantasy. With a soft, squishy outer layer wrapped...$49.00 -
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Tantus They/Them Supersoft Dildo
Tantus
$49.99Step Out of The Binary. A great reminder not to judge a book by its cover, our Tantus They/Them Supersoft Dildo is not the same old "for her or for him!" Short (but not too sweet) bulked-up (but never overbearing), this awesomely thick dong is actually...$49.99 -
Buck Angel T-Wash Intimate Cleanser
Sliquid Natural Lube
$15.99You, Only Cleaner! Heads up, hormone heroes: HRT can remix your natural scent, and not always in ways you’ll love. Don’t reach for harsh soaps that murder your pH and sabotage your bits—your junk deserves better. Enter Buck Angel T-Wash...$15.99 -
Blush Avant Pride 2 Dildo - Trans Pride Flag
Blush Toys
$46.00These Colors Don’t Run. Bold stripes. Strong base. Zero apologies. Meet the Blush Avant Pride 2 Dildo – Trans Pride Flag — a curved, semi-soft silicone dildo wrapped in the blue, pink, and white Trans Flag (props to Monica Helms.)...$46.00 -
Blush Performance Packer - 5 Inch
Blush Toys
$17.00A Total Natural. Meet the Blush Performance Packer – 5 Inch: the Goldilocks of packers. Not too big, not too small, just right. Soft enough to pass the “squeeze test” but firm enough to make your silhouette scream legit. With...$17.00 -
Fetish Fantasy Squirting Strap-On Cock & Balls
Pipedream
$69.00Meet Your New Ride-or-Die. Ready to stand, deliver, and make it rain? The Fetish Fantasy Squirting Strap-On Cock & Balls is your all-in-one sex sidekick, packing realistic penetration plus a show-stopping cum shot. Hollow and unisex, it hugs your...$69.00 -
Blush 1st Timer Flexible Dildo
Blush Toys
$14.99Fun Sized! First time venturing down the naughty rabbit hole? Or maybe you just like it cute and manageable—we get it. Meet the Blush 1st Timer Flexible Dildo: soft, bendy, and oh-so-lifelike. Its slimmer, shorter shaft is perfect for easing into...$14.99 -
Packer Gear Ultra-Soft Silicone STP
California Exotics
$42.00Stand and Deliver. Meet your new best friend: the Packer Gear Ultra-Soft Silicone STP—your ticket to taking care of business like a boss. Perfect for FTM folks, this packer isn’t just about looking right; it lets you pee standing up with zero...$42.00 -
Pack It Light Realistic Dildos
Doc Johnson
$22.00Lose The Bulk. Is your packer feeling more like a carry-on than a sidekick? Time to lighten the load! Our Pack It Light Realistic Dildos keep your junk looking full-on believable without weighing you down. Perfect for jocks, briefs, or harnesses, these...$22.00 -
Blush Temptasia Dildos - Reina Teal Semi-realistic
Blush Toys
$32.00Bow Down, It’s Reina Time! Meet Reina, the teal temptress who rules your G-Spot kingdom with a soft, sexy curve that teases all the right places without being scary-big. Not too phallic, not too shy—just regal enough to earn your devotion...$32.00 -
Buck Angel's T-Lube
Sliquid Natural Lube
$12.99YOUR Lube Has Arrived—And It Gets You. High T is great and all, but sometimes it leaves your bits drier than the Sahara. Enter Buck Angel’s T-Lube—the transman-friendly, gender-affirming lubricant that knows exactly what your front-hole...$12.99
Made for Bodies the World Wasn’t Built For
Let’s be blunt: most of the world still isn’t built for trans people. Not bathrooms. Not healthcare. Not clothing. And definitely not sex toys. Too much of what’s out there is designed for cis bodies first and then awkwardly repurposed, resized, or relabeled — as if that’s good enough. It isn’t.
This collection exists because trans people deserve pleasure that actually works with their bodies, not around them. Toys designed with intention. With awareness. With the understanding that dysphoria, desire, confidence, and libido can all coexist — often loudly — in the same body.
Whether you’re navigating second puberty, dialing in what kind of pressure or sensation feels right, or just looking for something that doesn’t make you feel like an afterthought, this is where we start taking that seriously.
Pleasure Isn’t Optional. It’s Survival.
In a culture that questions your existence, legislates your body, and treats basic dignity like a debate topic, pleasure isn’t frivolous. It’s grounding. It’s affirming. It’s a reminder that your body belongs to you.
That’s why you’ll find strokers made specifically for trans masculine bodies here. Thoughtfully designed options for trans feminine bodies. Packers to experiment with size, shape, heft, and feel — not just aesthetics. Harnesses and strap-ons that actually hold what you need, securely and comfortably.
This isn’t about novelty. It’s about function, confidence, and the kind of relief that only comes when something finally fits.
A Small Act of Defiance (and a Lot of Horniness)
We can’t fix the world from a product category. But we can make sure that when you’re looking for pleasure, release, or connection, you’re not settling for something that wasn’t meant for you in the first place.
Nothing here is performative. Nothing is included as a gesture. These are tools for people who exist, desire, and deserve more — especially in a world that keeps trying to offer less.
Welcome to TabuToys. You’re not an afterthought here.