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NOBODY WARNED YOU ABOUT PERIMENOPAUSE

NOBODY WARNED YOU ABOUT PERIMENOPAUSE

Perimenopause has one of the worst PR teams in medical history. Ask most people what they know about it and you'll hear some combination of hot flashes, mood swings, and maybe a joke about needing to turn the thermostat down. Meanwhile, millions of women are lying awake at 3 a.m. wondering why they can't sleep, why their shoulder suddenly hurts, why their ears itch, why sex feels different, and WHY THE HELL nobody mentioned any of this before. And here's the real kicker—this hormonal rug …
Jun 18th 2026 C. Pocaressi
A Valentine’s Night In for Women Who Love Women

A Valentine’s Night In for Women Who Love Women

Staying in is the plan. Valentine’s Day doesn’t need a reservation. It doesn’t need a crowd, a prix fixe menu, or the kind of public romance that feels like it’s being evaluated by strangers. Staying in isn’t giving up — it’s opting out on purpose. This guide is for lesbian couples who want a Valentine’s night that feels romantic without being performative, intimate without being overproduced, and thoughtful without turning into a lifestyle …
Dec 22nd 2025 C. Ressi

The Gospel of the Clit: How Air-Suction Toys Quietly Rewired Female Pleasure

{ "__shgImageV2Elements": { "uuid": "s-7ef816c8-1242-45de-97c1-ef013898c7d7" } } The same brainpower that brought us Wi-Fi and the Mars Rover has now given us contact-free orgasms. You’re welcome, humanity. The Long, Strange History of Missing the Clit For most of human history, men invented everything — or took credit for it. Rockets, cathedrals, and yes, even those tragically beige, penis-shaped “massagers” of the 1980s that …
Oct 27th 2025 Christina P

Vaginal Dilation 101

{ "__shgImageV2Elements": { "uuid": "s-aee9dd52-8493-401e-b6b5-d13a6845fb3d" } } Pelvic Pain Disorder (Vaginismus) is a very real health issue that affects 5 to 17 percent of all women. Here's a few tips on how to deal with it. “Vaginal Atrophy.” Could anything sound less sexy? It may not be a topic you care to discuss with friends or family, but it’s a serious health issue that shouldn’t be ignored. Many women experience vaginal shorte …
Nov 26th 2023 C. Ressi

How To Boost Your Sexual Health & Pleasure With Kegel Exercises

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May 26th 2023 Kate Sloane

The Clit Stop: Our Top 5 External Vibes

window.SHOGUN_IMAGE_V2_ELEMENTS = window.SHOGUN_IMAGE_V2_ELEMENTS || new Array(); window.SHOGUN_IMAGE_V2_ELEMENTS.push({ hoverImage: '', uuid: 's-eb7ed443-daf1-4a93-a6e8-9c922abf1436' }) Why are clitoral vibrators important? News Flash: Around 70% of women and people with vaginas can't orgasm through internal stimulation alone. Guess the human organ whose sole function is sexual pleasure? That’s right – the Clitoris – AKA- Ground Zero of the female …
Apr 11th 2023 C. Ressi