In long-distance relationships, remote-controlled sex toys are a true technological breakthrough that can help you and your partner feel more connected. Lovense has been at the forefront of this technology since 2010!

Never has the world been as sexually charged in the realm of technology as it is today.

In the mood to talk to someone across the globe? Dating apps. Feeling a bit lonely and aroused but far from home? Catch up online with your “friend with benefits”. Feel like sexting or having video sex? Skype, Zoom, FaceTime, Telegram, WhatsApp (video)! See? All of our bases are seemingly covered. So can it actually get better than that? It can! Introducing the world of teledildonics.

Sounds fancy, right? It is, but sexier! Teledildonics offers long-distance couples the chance to have sex in real-time, no matter how near or far! What exactly is a teledildonic? A teledildonic is a device used for virtual sex encounters using networked electric sex toys to mimic and extend human sexual interaction. And, some of the world’s biggest sex toy brands have hopped on the teledildonic train, such as We-Vibe, Kiiroo, OhMiBod, and of course, Lovense.

To think: a mere few decades ago, the only way a long-distance real-time couple could converse would be to use a landline. Crazy! So, are you in a long-distance relationship looking to connect sexually with your partner in real-time? Then you’ll adore Lovense, a sex toy brand at the forefront of technological long-distance sex.

Lovense, sex toys for long-distance couples

The essence of Lovense was brought to life in 2009 when founder Dan Liu felt the strain of being in a long-distance relationship. This lack of physical intimacy and sex then sparked his interest in teledildonics. After years of research, in 2013, Lovense launched the first app-based tech toys of their kind. And since then, they’ve been rocking the sex toy industry.

You see, Lovense sex toys are not only perfect for long-distance relationships… they’re also entirely erotic to use during solo play, play time in-person, and for the camming industry. With the release of the Lovense Lush in 2015, for example, the camming industry was completely revolutionized (you know, that pink sex toy you’ve seen in porn?).

Today, they’re doing even better with their Lovense Lush 3! More on that below…

How do remote sex toys work for long-distance relationships?

Tech jargon and history aside, let’s jump into the sexier side of things!

Picture it: you’re sitting in one state/country and your partner is in another. You feel exceptionally turned on, craving the feel of real intimacy, but it’s just not possible. Or is it? When you choose to use a remote sex toy, you’re giving your partner uninterrupted access to your pleasure. How does it work exactly? One partner will buy a remote sex toy, and both will download the accompanying app.

The sex toy owner will give their partner access to their specific sex toy so that they can control everything from the speed, vibrational patterns, and more. Lovense, for example, has a slew of innovative functions. They allow users to create their own patterns, the chance to sync vibrations with music, and the ability for the toy to synchronize with background sounds (even voices). How’s that for some kinky public play?

These kinds of sex toys for long-distance real-time couples also have some other nifty features such as video calling capabilities, which will allow one partner to control their lover’s toy whilst watching their reaction in real time. Having said all of this, you can surely imagine that playing with one of these toys can be just as arousing for some during a live camming session with a sex worker.

So many ways to play!

5 Benefits of using sex toys in a long distance relationship

The ultimate question now is: why go for a remote sex toy when you’re in a long-distance relationship? Would it not be easier to grab one of your favorite sex toys and DIY? In some cases, sure! But there are certainly some perks to playing with your partner from afar…

1. Hands-free play at the hand of your lover

Hands-free pleasure is always a bonus, right? But this time, you’ve got an additional helping hand to make it even more delicious. That is, your partner! When your sexual bliss is in the hands of your lover, you get to give up all control, sit back, and enjoy all the things they’ve been dying to do to you.

2. Increased emotional bond

The sexual aspect aside, when you give your partner full control over your pleasure, it fosters a sense of trust and vulnerability. When there is trust in a relationship, it paves the way for both partners to be more open and giving. It also gives people the element of safety, allowing them to be their most authentic selves.

3. Better communication

Intimacy in person is ideal for many, but during this kind of sexual experience, communication doesn’t always have to happen. Some people like to show their partner what they like instead of telling them. Or they may just keep quiet. When you use a remote sex toy however, there’s less pressure to upset your partner when you tell them what you want. After all, remote sex toys are a learning curve to enjoy together.

4. Explore fantasies together

Some people may feel too anxious or embarrassed to talk to their partner about their sexual fantasies, kinks, or fetishes. They may fear being judged or made to feel ashamed for having them. But, when you’re miles apart, it really does soften the blow. You could suggest things to each other in a less intimidating way, whilst stimulating one another.

5. Keeps your sex life fresh and exciting

Do you think you’d be using these kinds of sex toys if you and your lover weren’t apart? When you think outside of the box to keep things exciting (in the bedroom), no matter the distance, there’s no telling what else you could get up to when you finally see each other face-to-face.

Lovense sex toys for long-distance couples

And last but not least, here are our top 5 favorite Lovense sex toys for long-distance couples. Enjoy the thrilling ride that is sex from afar!

1. Lovense Lush 3 Sound Activated Camming Vibrator

What is arguably the belle of the ball, Lush 3 is an insertable egg vibrator that stimulates your G-spot with exact precision and has an ergonomic fixed tail that keeps it in-place. What is so special about the Lovense Lush 3? Besides the fact that it’s perfect for long-distance couples and cam models, it also has a motor that’s four times stronger than most other love eggs, panty vibrators, and remote vibrators.

2. Lovense Gush Glans Massager for Men

Just the tip? The Lovense Gush Glans Massager for Men was made just for you. It’s one of those hands-free luxury sex toys that does all the hard work for you as you imbibe the sexual tension and final release. With its flexible design, variety of speeds and patterns, and its long-distance pleasure capabilities, penis owners will undoubtedly enjoy massive climaxes, over and over again.

3. Lovense Dolce (Quake) Dual Stimulator 

Similar to the Lovense 3, the Dolce (Quake) vibrator is a sweet treat that not only stimulates your G-spot but also, your clitoris. A dual-stimulation sex toy that’s sleek, luxurious, and entirely sexy. It comes with two motors making it twice as nice, it’s wearable so you can enjoy some cheeky public play (with your partner near or far), and you can play with all kinds of sound activations too. Yum!

3. Lovense Osci 2 Oscillating G-Spot Vibrator 

Who would have thought that the word ‘oscillating’ would ever be so erotic?! Alas, Lovense is in town with the Osci 2 Oscillating G-Spot Vibrator. And actually, it’s the world's first oscillating G-spot vibrator! In other words, this pink piece of sexual bliss not only vibrates, but it also moves the vibrations in and out! Did someone say full-body orgasm?

5. Lovense Hush Bluetooth Butt Plug

Anal lovers and anal newbies, say hi to the Lovense Hush Bluetooth Butt Plug. This anal stimulation sex toy is so discreet, you could choose to wear it out in public. Better yet, have your partner control it near or far for an element of erotic surprise. It has a sleek tapered tip for smooth insertion and a flared base for easy removal, and is one of the strongest anal sex toy motors on the market today. Why is it perfect for anyone interested in anal play? It comes in three sizes; small, medium, and large! Have it your way!

And so, are you sold when it comes to teledildonics? And what are your thoughts on the tantalizing Lovense range? We’re sure there’s something to tickle your fancy! Have fun!

Helena Lorimer

www.heyimyourwriter.com