Adult Sex Toy Advice For Couples
If you and your partner are curious about spicing things up, raid your own toy drawer first. No need to shop—your current collection is begging for an encore performance. Here’s how to sneak them into your shared playtime.
They come in every size, shape, and shade under the sun. Some are no-frills plastic gizmos that get the job done; others are high-end objets d’art you could probably pass off as modern sculpture in your living room. Yes, we’re talking sex toys, people. And if you’re reading this, chances are you’ve got at least one rattling around in your nightstand—or you should.
Once upon a time, you had to sneak into a sketchy shop or flip to the back of an adult magazine to find these little miracles. Now? They’re everywhere, in more flavors than an ice cream parlor. Luxury brands like We-Vibe and Jimmyjane have even managed to turn vibrators into status symbols. (Somewhere out there, Beyoncé probably has a gold-plated rabbit nestled in her Birkin—and honestly, respect.) According to Chicago’s Berman Center, nearly half of all adult women are already in on the action.
So you’d think couples everywhere must be buzzing happily ever after, right? Not exactly. Plenty of women own toys but feel awkward whipping them out in front of a partner. Some even feel guilty, thanks to that dusty old myth that toys are for the lonely and single. Spoiler: they’re not.
On the flip side, lots of men like the idea but clam up when it’s time to ask if they can play too. Cue the self-consciousness. If that sounds familiar, take a breath, unclench, and get over it. Sex toys are designed for fun, not shame. And newsflash: they’re made for sharing—didn’t kindergarten already drill that into us?
Bringing toys into couple play doesn’t just crank up the physical intensity (though, yes, it very much does that). It also demands a level of trust, communication, and vulnerability that can bleed beautifully into the rest of your relationship. Basically, it’s foreplay and couples therapy wrapped in silicone.
So now that we’ve handled the why, let’s get to the how. Below you’ll find a tour of some greatest hits from the toy box, plus a few clever ways to turn them from solo accessories into two-player gear. Lovers, start your engines.
Anal Vibrators – “The Journey to Uranus”
"Use sex toys to amp up arousal and to explore diverse sensations on all areas of your body. Don’t limit your sexuality and pleasure to the few sensations a mouth, tongue, hand, or orifice can provide”
- Dr. Chris Donaghue
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