A Beginner's Guide To Male Sex Toys
Here's how the right tools can take your sex and masturbation game from good to great.
Gone are the days when the word ‘sex toy’ just meant dildos or vibrators for women. You don’t have to be a woman and single for the past few months to qualify as someone that wants to use a sex toy. Fortunately, the world has opened up a lot when it comes to sex toys. The sex toy industry has also evolved a lot in the past decade and finally men have started getting a bit of a taste of the action.
So, before we get into the specifics, let’s talk about one small thing. We know that as novices to sex toys, many man feel a bit reluctant to try them out. Regardless, sex toys aren’t something that you need to be ashamed of. It doesn’t matter whether you’re using them solo or with your girl, you’re perfectly okay using sex toys. We openly invite anyone that trashes sex toys to at least try them once. We can guarantee that you’ll keep coming back for more and more.
So, if sheer embarrassment is what was keeping you from jumping on the sex toy train, then don’t worry and hop on over, it’s an amazing ride.
Types of Male Sex Toys
There’s a long list of male sex toys out there for men but the main categories are as follows:
- Cock Rings (they’re not just for guys who need help with maintaining an erection)
- Penis Pumps
- Prostate Massagers
- Sex Dolls (they have come a long, long way from blow up dolls)
These are just the main types. But, for all you newbies out there, we’re going to only talk about the two which newbies should check out.
Masturbators are great for all men that are tired of their own hand. These little bad boys are actually replicas meant to seem like the real deal. They’re usually molded to feel like vaginas, asses or mouths, and sometimes even molded similar to famous pornstars for twice the fun. These masturbators are made from a skin like variant of silicone so they feel more natural and realistic.
Masturbators are usually just a small lump of silicone, but if you’re looking for something much more technically advanced, you could venture in the world of fleshlights. Fleshlights are a more modern version of masturbators and instead of just skin, they’re like a vagina in a big flash light, hence the name fleshlight. The design is way more realistic as well as more comfortable. Some even have vibrators inside. So, don’t worry about running out of options, there are enough masturbators to keep you busy for a long, long time.
If you’ve been masturbating and wishing it felt better, masturbators like fleshlights are for you. I guarantee that it feels a hell of a lot better than masturbating with your hand because male masturbators actually feel like you’re having sex.
Basically, for you guys that don’t know what a prostate is, it’s like the male ‘g-spot’. It’s a small walnut shaped organ about three inches deep in the anus. Most men can reach it with their hand pretty easily. But, the folks that can’t do that easily or prefer a much more intense sensation can use a prostate massager to do the exact same thing.
The reason why prostate massagers are even a thing is because massaging the prostate can provide an orgasm in the same way as a stroking the penis does. But, the difference is that an orgasm by stimulating the prostate is much more intense than a standard orgasm.
If you’re looking for even more fun during solo play, you could consider getting a prostate massager with a vibrator. The vibrator ones are pretty serious stuff. You just stick them in and leave them there as they do their job much more efficiently than you ever could on your own.
I get the whole reluctance of straight guys to stick something where the sun doesn’t shine but you all must be curious what it feels like. I was really reluctant as well but my curiosity got the better of me and I haven’t looked back. It feels great! You get the opportunity to have a different type of orgasm and it’s brilliant.
If you’re just stepping into the world of sex toys, just grab any toy you can find and we’re certain that you’re not going to want to step out of your bed for the next few days. But, if you really want to get in there and get the most fun you possibly could, just grab a masturbator or a prostate massager and you’re going to be good to go.
About the author
Will is a straight male in his 30’s who loves testing different types of sex toys for men. He runs the blog https://mrwillshouseofthrills.com
"Sexual pleasure is a legitimate right of the human being.”
- Samael Aun Weor