Sex + Menopause
Sex + Menopause
IT'S NOT JUST AGING.
Perimenopause and menopause can change a lot more than your thermostat. Men lose a little performance, and entire industries rush to help. Women lose sensation, desire, and lubrication, and are given a shrug. This collection is for women who would prefer actual solutions, not scented candles. From lubricants and moisturizers to arousal products and pleasure enhancers, you'll find products selected for women who aren't quite ready to declare their sex lives over.
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MoonBloom Menopause Wildflower Clitoral Gel
Intimate Organics
$28.00HELLO AGAIN. A little spark can change everything. MoonBloom Menopause Wildflower Clitoral Gel is made for the moments when desire is there, but your body could use a little encouragement. This gentle arousal gel combines Japanese peppermint, L-Arginine,...$28.00 -
MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Hybrid
Intimate Organics
$32.00DON'T HIT PAUSE. Menopause has enough surprises. Your lubricant shouldn't be one of them. MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Hybrid feels light and natural like a traditional water-based lubricant, but hangs around a little longer when the...$32.00 -
MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Silicone
Intimate Organics
$34.00STAY AWHILE. Menopause has enough surprises. Your lubricant shouldn't be one of them. MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Silicone delivers the longest-lasting glide in the MoonBloom collection, creating a silky barrier that stays exactly...$34.00 -
MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Water-Based
Intimate Organics
$28.00GO WITH THE FLOW. Menopause has enough surprises. Your lubricant shouldn't be one of them. MoonBloom Menopause Comfort Lubricant – Water-Based delivers lightweight, water-based hydration that feels clean, comfortable, and completely natural...$28.00 -
JO Vitalize Balance Refreshing Intimate Mist
JO
$20.00WAIT—DO I SMELL DIFFERENT? Blame The Hormones, Not Your Hygiene. Perimenopause and menopause have a truly charming way of changing the rules without sending a memo. As estrogen fluctuates and declines, shifts in pH, moisture, and the intimate...$20.00 -
JO Vitalize Nourish Restoring Intimate Moisturizer
JO
$20.00YOUR SKINCARE ROUTINE HAS A BLIND SPOT. Every Part Deserves A Little TLC. Daily hydration shouldn't stop at your neck. Give delicate intimate skin the same nourishing care you give the rest of your body with JO Vitalize Nourish Restoring Intimate...$20.00 -
Simply Timeless Arousal Serum
Wicked Sensual Care
$34.00LET’S WAKE A FEW THINGS UP. Comfort is important. So is pleasure. Sometimes your libido needs a cup of coffee. Unlike traditional clitoral gels that rely on menthol, Simply Timeless Arousal Serum combines Wicked’s signature supportive...$34.00 -
Simply Timeless Hybrid + DHEA Lubricant
Wicked Sensual Care
$25.99THINGS CHANGE. SO CAN YOUR LUBE. Sometimes a little extra support makes all the difference. Life has enough surprises. Dryness doesn’t need to be one of them. Simply Timeless Hybrid + DHEA Lubricant combines the silky feel of a water-based...$25.99 -
Simply Timeless Aqua Water-Based Lubricant
Wicked Sensual Care
$20.99COMFORT SHOULDN’T BE NEGOTIABLE Because lubrication shouldn’t be another thing on your to-do list. Life has enough surprises. Dryness doesn’t need to be one of them. Simply Timeless Aqua Water-Based Lubricant is designed to support...$20.99 -
PlusOne Petite Pelvic Wand
PlusOne
$38.99Pelvic Therapy, But Make It Fun. It's time to loosen up. Painful penetration happens. Whether it’s vaginismus, menopause, recovery, or a pelvic floor carrying more tension than it should, the PlusOne Petite Pelvic Wand is designed to help make...$38.99 -
Femintimate Pelvix Strengthening System
Adrien Lastic
$46.00Strength, by design. Precision training for muscles that actually matter. The Femintimate Pelvix Strengthening System from Adrien Lastic is a thoughtfully designed pelvic floor training set that combines ergonomic comfort with progressive resistance...$46.00 -
Revelation Clitoral Suction Stimulator
Adrien Lastic
$119.00Clit, Meet Tech. Focused suction, zero guesswork. The Revelation Clitoral Suction Stimulator from Adrien Lastic is designed for people who already know what they like—and want more than standard air-pulse toys can deliver. While classic suction...$119.00
WE'RE NOT DONE YET.
If you've spent any time reading about perimenopause and menopause, you've probably noticed that the internet has two solutions for women over 40: weak herbal supplements that don't actually do a damned thing, or being told to lower your expectations.
The articles aren't much better. It's always a stock photo of a nice middle-aged lady doing an asana pose, accompanied by some patronizing drivel about how "The Best Is Yet To Come."
Frankly, we don't care whether the best is yet to come.
We want YOU to come.
When reduced sensation decides to join the party, sometimes a polite little vibrator isn't going to cut it. That's why you'll find everything from lubricants, arousal gels, and dilators to suction toys in this collection. This is where you'll find the heavy hitters that mean business.
Because women need actual solutions - not inspirational quotes.
Questions? We've probably been there.
Tabutoys is staffed almost entirely by Generation X women. We're tired, we're hormonal, and we're no longer accepting "that's just aging" as a satisfactory explanation for anything.
If you need help choosing a product, have questions about an order, or want recommendations from people who understand exactly why you're here, we're happy to help. No judgment. No inspirational quotes. No suggestions that you lower your expectations.
Visit our Contact Us page and send us a message. We've probably already Googled whatever you're about to ask at 3 a.m.