Sex + Menopause
Sex + Menopause
IT'S NOT JUST AGING.
Perimenopause and menopause can change a lot more than your thermostat. Men lose a little performance, and entire industries rush to help. Women lose sensation, desire, and lubrication, and are given a shrug. This collection is for women who would prefer actual solutions, not scented candles. From lubricants and moisturizers to arousal products and pleasure enhancers, you'll find products selected for women who aren't quite ready to declare their sex lives over.
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Womanizer NEXT DUO
Womanizer
$249.00Your blended orgasms just got a plot twist. 3D Pleasure Air meets deep internal vibration for full-body, lights-out finales. The Womanizer NEXT Duo is a dual-action stimulator that combines Womanizer’s 3D Pleasure Air clitoral technology with deep,...$249.00 -
Le Wand LICK 3-in-1 Clit Pump, Tongue & G-Spot Vibe
Le Wand
$99.00Three Ways to Get There. Reach your peak again...and again...and again... We all have certain basic needs—food, water, shelter, and for everything else, there’s the Le Wand LICK 3-in-1 Clit Pump, Tongue & G-Spot Vibe. This multitasking...$99.00 -
ULTRA-POWER Magic Wand Waterproof HV-360
Vibratex
$225.00TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING FEELS GREAT.The most powerful Magic Wand ever made. Yes, really. Looking for the hardest-hitting Magic Wand® ever created? Meet the ULTRA-POWER Magic Wand Waterproof HV-360—a full-throttle upgrade built for people who...$225.00 -
Shots Dazzling Pussy & Breast Pump
Shots Toys
$64.00THE BIGGER THE BETTER. Ready to join the SWOLE Patrol? Some people are here for the look. Others are here for the sensation. The Dazzling Pussy Pump happily delivers both. Combining powerful suction with 9000 RPM vibrations, this rechargeable pump...$64.00 -
Scioness Sucking & Licking Tongue Vibrator
Honey Play Box
$91.00Put Your Clit on Speed Dial. Because waiting around for oral is a terrible system. Oral sex is a magical thing — we all agree on that. But wouldn’t it be better if you could summon it instantly, no scheduling required? (Spoiler: you can.) The...$91.00 -
Pjur Woman LUST Stimulating Gel
Pjur
$29.99 - $30.99Lust. Exactly What It Sounds Like. One drop. A little chemistry. Suddenly everything feels better. Clitoral stimulation is where the magic lives — and Pjur Woman Lust Stimulating Gel knows exactly how to wake it up. A single drop applied around the...$29.99 - $30.99 -
Enhance Rechargeable Vulva Pump
Shots Toys
$69.00VIVA LA VULVA Foreplay with a power source. Some toys are designed to get you off. Others are designed to get you ready. The Enhance Rechargeable Vulva Pump does both. Combining vacuum suction with stimulating licking sensations, this unique pleasure...$69.00 -
Tenera 2 Bluetooth Clitoral Suction Vibrator
Lovense
$119.00THE PRETTIEST ORGASM SHORTCUT YOU'LL EVER USE.Gift your clit with 4,500 air pulses per minute! For a lot of people, orgasm doesn’t show up without a little clitoral encouragement. That’s not a flaw in your wiring—it’s biology. In...$119.00 -
Colours Dilator Kit
NS Novelties
$65.00GETTING BACK IN THE SADDLE. Because "just relax" isn't a treatment plan. Nobody grows up dreaming about shopping for vaginal dilators. But whether you're dealing with vaginismus, vulvodynia, vaginal atrophy, post-surgical recovery, pelvic floor...$65.00 -
Bloom Automatic Vibrating Pump for Women
Doc Johnson
$150.00LET CURIOSITY TAKE THE LEAD. More sensation. More options. Some toys do one thing well. Bloom Automatic Vibrating Pump gives you 49 ways to experiment. This rechargeable suction and vibration toy is designed for clitoral, vulva, and nipple stimulation,...$150.00 -
Blush Wellness Silicone Dilator Kit
Blush Toys
$64.00SMALL STEPS. BIG DIFFERENCE. Comfort is not a race. Not all dilator sets are created equal. The Blush Wellness Silicone Dilator Kit was designed specifically for beginners, featuring some of the smallest and narrowest dimensions we've seen in a silicone...$64.00 -
Pjur Med Repair Body Glide
Pjur
$24.00YOUR DAILY RX FOR DRYNESS. Because "just use more lube" isn't always the answer. Need a little extra moisture? You're not alone. Vaginal dryness is incredibly common during perimenopause, menopause, after childbirth, and during other hormonal shifts...$24.00
WE'RE NOT DONE YET.
If you've spent any time reading about perimenopause and menopause, you've probably noticed that the internet has two solutions for women over 40: weak herbal supplements that don't actually do a damned thing, or being told to lower your expectations.
The articles aren't much better. It's always a stock photo of a nice middle-aged lady doing an asana pose, accompanied by some patronizing drivel about how "The Best Is Yet To Come."
Frankly, we don't care whether the best is yet to come.
We want YOU to come.
When reduced sensation decides to join the party, sometimes a polite little vibrator isn't going to cut it. That's why you'll find everything from lubricants, arousal gels, and dilators to suction toys in this collection. This is where you'll find the heavy hitters that mean business.
Because women need actual solutions - not inspirational quotes.
Questions? We've probably been there.
Tabutoys is staffed almost entirely by Generation X women. We're tired, we're hormonal, and we're no longer accepting "that's just aging" as a satisfactory explanation for anything.
If you need help choosing a product, have questions about an order, or want recommendations from people who understand exactly why you're here, we're happy to help. No judgment. No inspirational quotes. No suggestions that you lower your expectations.
Visit our Contact Us page and send us a message. We've probably already Googled whatever you're about to ask at 3 a.m.